His Virgin Wife Is Scared Of Having Sex

A friend of mine need our counsel, he' hs been married for 3 months now & has not had sex with his wife, cos she is scared of having sex, wen discussing with my friend he said his wife have refused him sex cos of the believe that 1st experiences are usually painful, I suggest they see a counsellor & they did, they were told to talk abt it until she is able to get over her fear & they should make use of some recomended gels for easy access & less pains,bt it is not working as each time they tried the wife cries and he said he does nt want to force her cos to him is like molest, pls ur suggestions
Tnk u